from Sebastians mom;
Sebastian tragically lost his father in a devastating accident in Texas in March 2025. On that heart-Wrenching day, he lost not only his father but his best friend. Thankfully, Sebastian didn’t fly with his dad that day, though they usually did. The weight of this loss is beyond words, and the emotional toll on him is immense. The road to healing will be long and painful, taking months, if not years.
At just 17 years old, Sebastian is now facing overwhelming challenges. His family lived paycheck to paycheck, and now, he is left with no way to cover the costs of his father’s funeral or the legal fees. He needs to hire a lawyer to defend both himself and his father’s estate, but at his young age, this burden is simply too much to bare alone.
To make matters even more difficult, Sebastian is now uncertain about his future. His father’ s car was in his name, so he is left without transportation. He also faces an uncertain path ahead with college plans, as the probate process for his father’s estate could take months or even years, leaving him in a difficult position to move forward.
The investigation into the accident is still ongoing, but the process is slow and painful. The emotional strain on Sebastian and his mother is unbearable, and with mounting bills, they are seeking counseling. Both have lost someone so dear, and this tragedy has left them with a heavy heart and no clear way forward.
Sebastian and his mother are in need of support during this incredibly difficult time. Any help, no matter how small, would make an immeasurable difference in easing their burden. Please consider offering your kindness and support. It would mean the world to them.
Thank you.
We are excited to say that the funeral is coming in one week. It is one more thing that we will deal with but thanks to all of our donors it will be possible to face the financial dues. God is good and we look to him ever day to sustain us. May he also sustain you.
There is more fight to fight and more financial obligations to overcome but I trust the Lord to provide through his people. Thank you all again.
Thank you.
The Funeral
The funeral was last night. They did not have a body, but it did not matter. The crash and fire destroyed everything. There were over 60 people who came. He will be missed. Bonnie and Sebastian were overwhelmed. They cried a lot, and I don’t understand why they had to play sad music during the service and his photo movie. Bonnie has the flu and also Sebastian. The stress on the body and mind is wearing them out.
Please pray they can move on in life quickly. To choose to rejoice that he was part of their lives and to be thankful for the time shared. We all grieve differently but we need to respect and pray together for their well-being to return quickly. Life does not stop, and collectors don’t care how hard life can be. So please pray.
It has been a long road to recovery. We are still not there. Sebastians mom broke down crying because it is prom night tonight and usually when there was a school dance it was always Sebastians dad that made sure pictures were taken and his son’s hair did not look like he just rolled out of bed. The flowers he bought for his girlfriend did not stay together and broke before the dance. Sebastians mom had to rush off to spend another 40$, she does not have; to make the prom and his girlfriend’s flowers a special event. This is his last dance of high school. His dad is never going to see another dance, girlfriend or anything again since he is gone. So Sebastians mom is still missing him.
Thank you all for contributing to help this family. They need the help. Please continue to pass this along to all your friends and family. Thank you.
We made it through Easter. This was very hard since Sebastian always spent the day with his dad.
Graduation is coming next, then his birthday. How many tears shall we cry and how many prayers shall we speak?
Without our family and friends help and you the future is uncertain. Will he be able to go to college, or anything else?
So, I ask, please help.
May 2, 2025
How much more can we stand? So much is happening? I don’t understand what is happening, but it reminds me that God is in control. Two weeks ago, Sebastians grandpa died. It was not enough for his dad to die in a plane crash, but now his grandpa. Even though he was old, the timing is very strange. What does God want us to know? His mother is very stressed and unable to process the life they now must live.
If anyone can help, please do.