I need your loving help Please,
I was diagnosed with endometrial/ovarian cancer since April 8,2024, I have had two surgeries, thus far. the latest surgery was on 7-16-24, “ROBOTIC ASSISTED LAPAROSCOPY TOTAL HYSTERECTOMY BILATERAL SALPINGO OOPHORECTOMY BILATERAL SENTINEL PELVIC LYMPH NODE MAPPING BIOPSIES
I received the report of my pathology, which came back POSITIVE FOR FIGO STAGE III LEFT OVARY WITH ENDOMETROID ADENOCARCINOMA/and ENDOMETRIAL ADENOCARCINOMA, ENDOMETROID TYPE, FIGO GRADE 2, IN GREATEST DIMENSION, MYOMETRIAL INVASION 19/20MM AT 95%
all big scary words for a single mom. my oncologist, MD, has told me that chemo treatments will needed for 6 cycle intervals of 21 days apart x 2 and that I will be losing my hair. but it will give me an 85% chance of survival! I have a son, and he depends on me. cannot think of leaving him alone ! he needs his mommy! like i need my son!
My company that I have been working for since 2017, has decided to terminate my employment, the HR Manager, called me, on the 7-18-24, two days after my surgery, not to ask, how I was doing, but to let me know point blank, they will not be waiting for me to recover from my surgery and that I will be receiving information about cobra in the mail, and I will have medical benefits covering me until 07-27-24. if I need medical insurance I would have to pay it all by myself, and my son’s medical coverage will also be terminated.
and that they will be needing their equipment returned/ sent back to them asap. per the HR lady, i do not qualify for any PTO, STD, NO LTD under UMR THIRD PARTY administrators GUIDELINES!
at this point, my thoughts were, heavenly father, why is this so unjust!
after the phone call hung up, with HR lady,
my emotions took over, i was overwhelming in fear, and with no solutions, all I could do is cry and cry hiding myself from my son, I did not want him to see his only parent, be in this emotional pain, and rightfully so.
I am burden, financially, with my future, not looking so good, I am 59 yrs old, will be 60 in Feb, with Cancer, needing chemo treatments, and will loose my hair, i had to use my savings for rent, utilities, car note, car insurance, and meds, I have to continue to pay from July 28, moving forward a very high medical insurance bill, due to my cancer diagnosis and upcoming treatments, and yet i have not recovered fully from my surgery on 07-16-24. and that’s if Cobra will decide to approve or pay any portion of my surgery.
I live week to week, pay ck to pay ck, and I find myself without any monies coming in. and no job. I’m worried very much for myself and my son, I did not come from wealth or have a partner/or spouse. my parents deceased.
just me ,my son and God!
Im a single mom and Im desperate !
I am a believing that God is more powerful than my situation and that he is a healer and he will pull me thru this ! im grateful and very hopeful
I filed for food stamps, i did qualified for 281.00 a month, that’s a blessing.
but my medical insurance alone cobra will cost me 824.00 a month, until i can find another job, and if there is no waiting period for pre existing diag. the hosp bill is at 238,000.00 alone, plus my upcoming pet/ct scans/ my chemo/my wig/my meds
I have 27.12 in my bank account and i am hoping for a God sent miracle!
if you are able and find it in your hearts to donate, any amount , i would be forever so grateful, and one day i will pay it forward. you will be forever in my thankful heart for your kindness, and i know my heavenly father will bless you 9000 thousand fold.
thank you, for your gentle hearts and prayers!